Hi, i’m new here and I’d like to ask a few questions.
My bf is a Singaporean and I’m from Indonesia. Previously I worked in Manila, Philippines for 4 years and I resigned last Dec ‘17. After that on 17 Dec I went to Singapore to spend time with my bf and returned back to Jakarta on 10th Jan ‘18.
On Feb I went to SG again and I stayed there for 28 days. 2 days before I went back to Indo, my friend and her husband (the husband is Sg citizen so friend got DP) took me to JB to go sightseeing since i’ve never been to JB before. When we were about to exit Sg, at the immigration, the IO started to question me like what am i doing in sg, why do i wanna go to JB. I alrd felt something fishy. Then after the trip, right when we were at the SG immigration about to enter SG, I was escorted to the immigration office, they asked me where do I stay, then the lady asked for my ticket back and I showed her, she asked me if the ticket has been purchased and I told her yes, it’s alrd confirmed and paid. And she told me next time if I wanted to stay longer in Sg, I shud apply for online extension. And that time I was quite confused why did she told me that because I had no intention to stay longer so I just said okay. And she stamped my passport and wrote the exact date of my departure.
After 30 days, I came back to SG, I had an interview invitation this week in a SG company, I didn’t even apply, they found my profile on linkdin and contacted me and asked if I’m interested then the interview would be this week. Now I am in Singapore.
The thing is, yesterday upon entering SG, the IO was malay guy and his line was moving very slow since he took extra time to examine each person on his lane. And on my turn, he asked me questions like, who am i visiting in Sg? Is your bf Singaporean, Japanese, American? You need to print your return ticket next time. And your Bf’s IC. Because you visited your bf so often and you stayed for almost a month each. Are you working? Where did you get the money to travel if you’re not working?
I read about being denied entry in this forum after the JB incident and I realised my travel pattern might cause red flags, I am aware of that. The reason why I come to SG initially was because since I am now not working, I have more time to spend with my bf before I start working again. I didn’t know that would be a problem, Until I found this forum.
I don’t think I’ll come back to SG until October. He’ll just visit me in Indo.
My Bf and I will go to Japan this Oct and the flight will depart in Sg so I will need to fly to Sg and exit immigration before checking in to my Japan flight.
What I wanted to ask is, there’s a chance that I might get in trouble with the immigration even if I gave them my BF’s printed IC as they asked me. Is there any chance to prevent this?
And I will have trip to Thailand, the flight will have layover in SG but it’s on same airline so I don’t need to clear custom. Would it be a problem if i just have layover without even exiting the immigration?
Sorry for the long details, I just want to give clear picture of what’s happening.