First of all, welcome and congratulations on making such a move. To few americans actually do it, so, great job! Don't know if you've ever lived in another country before but be patient with yourselfÂ…. Give yourself at least 2-5 years to fully adjust to actually living abroad. Having lived abroad a few times myself, not to mention the other people I've met along the way, who have done the same thing, it's a process.
Every single time it's the same with me. First I love it, then hate it, then in the end realize that it has as many pros and cons as any where else. LOL
You may already know this.
I was a"vegan" athlete for over ten years myself and your hear at a very good time because now there is a nice community of "conscious eaters" , as well as "alternative" practices such as yoga, reki, tai chi, etcÂ… Trust me, 10 years ago it was nothing like it is now. lol
Regarding the Catalan deal: Since your boyfriend is catalan, I'm sure him and his family would much rather prefer for your focus to be learning catalan rather than castellanoÂ…especially if you already speak castellano 70%....unless they're 1st or 2nd generation catalans. They usually tend to speak castellano at home.
However, I've heard it all from, "it's essential!!" to "Forget about catalan and learn castellano!"
Everyone has there own opinion and mine is, that it really only depends on what your own personal world is like. Work / career / social / studies Â… each area may require a different language. No matter how many people try to tell you just what the answer is, there is no answer. e.g. Sometimes I need castellano, sometimes I need catalan and sometimes neither.
You'll find out how it is for you the more time you spend here.
Might be best to just get married if you plan to stay here. You'll find that the whole "papers" thing is a bit more complex for us "n. americans" unless you already have legal status. Start now if you can as the process take years and few people tend to be enthusiastic about helping. At least they were with meÂ…. Hopefully you'll have a much better experience. LOL
I have a puppy myself and as soon as he's a bit older, I'd love to have him meet yours. (he'll need to learn proper dog etiquette) lol
I'm also a musician like you but I do more music production now. Let me know if you're interested in knowing anything about the music scene here.
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