Coping with loss in South Korea

Cheryl Moderator

Member since 15 October 2018

CherylModerator24 April 2024 06:04:15

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Hello everyone,

Managing or preparing for a death in South Korea is a complex process that requires a thorough understanding of the laws and procedures in place in South Korea.

This situation raises several questions:

What are the steps to take to retrieve the belongings of a deceased loved one in South Korea?

What are the resources or specialised institutions available to assist in this process? What types of services can they offer in this context?

In the case of a will, how can one ensure that it is recognised and respected in South Korea? What challenges arise from differences in legislation?

Who should be informed first of the death of a loved one in South Korea? What are the most effective communication channels for notifying relatives and institutions?

What are the implications for dependent visas, such as those for spouses and children, when the visa holder passes away in South Korea? What steps need to be taken to address this situation?

Please feel free to share any information you find useful and your experiences on this topic.

Thank you for your contribution.
The 九色视频 Team

harpocrates Member

Member since 06 December 2023

harpocratesMember15 July 2024 17:58:49

Musings on Death and Dying

A very interesting thread. I'm sure that many will chime in on this matter. One of my concerns is a little different. When people hear about death in their own family, that can be very hard to deal with. Having good Korean speaking people around you can be very helpful at such times. Be patient.

A few tips: when sharing such news, make sure that you have the individual's attention and request that they may want to sit down, because there is some tragic/grave news that must be expressed.

When an expat crosses the ocean, they make an existential choice that they will likely miss certain weddings and funerals in the family. That is a sacrifice one makes, and it is a hard one! 20 years in Asia and your world back home changes immensely! Thus, one is left with much unresolved grief.

I have had friends that were not informed about a dying uncle because the family thought it would make no sense to come home in the middle of a semester. The family made an arbitrary choice, leaving my friend feeling very angry!

As a counselor, I have seen an unreality in a client's eyes as they play with the crocs in dee nile... That can't be easy. The reality of the death of a loved one so far away may take some time to properly deal with.

Finally, one great thing about Korean culture is that when there is death in the family, you (men) wear a dark suit with a white armband with stuff written on it. This tells people that he/she is in grieving and to be patient and respectable. I remember going to Costco immediately after a funeral and when the store employees saw the armband (my father-in-law had just passed away),they were extremely kind and empathetic. It was really a beautiful experience. We would be smart to adopt that in the west.

Death is a reality that we all must face. There is an old saying:

Friends help you move; real friends help you move bodies.

Sometimes we need to be carried~ whether through a hard time, or in a coffin at the very end. That's what being a friend is all about. Yvon