Thank you for asking this question Cheryl.
First time I visited Malaysia was in 1979, I had just graduated from university in London and was visiting a relative in Singapore. Her friend who was a Judge in Kuala Lumpur invited me to stay for a week in KL and her friend, brother of Najib the former PM brought me around KL I remember in his sports Mercedes. We went sightseeing, went to discos, clubs, eating out etc. That was great fun, Second time was around 1981. I flew to Penang to stay with friends, a Brit married to a Malaysia woman. Loved it then. Third time was in 1982 when I drove my Kawasaki z650 bike from Singapore where I was living up the East Coast of Malaysia with my Malay girlfriend at the time. That was great too because places like Johore Baru, Mersing, Desaru were very much underdeveloped. I also went on a few more motorbike trips into Malaysia with other expat friends in Singapore which was a lot of fun. These were guys I had gone to university with in London.
As an expat, because I had worked and lived in many countries in Asia, including 9 years in Singapore, when I eventually moved to Kuala Lumpur in 2003 I found the country very welcoming.
My first impression was that it was really nice, everyone spoke English, living here was cheap, shopping and eating was good, property was cheap to buy. People were friendly, especially with the opposite sex as foreigners were very popular. I was retired without any income and just there to buy property which was really easy because apart from my first property I was always able to get mortgage loans, and tenants were very easy to find.
No problem at all integrating. People were in the most part very friendly.
I don't know if there are support groups or events for newcomers but in Malaysia I see no point in that since the place is so easy to adapt to.
Yes very easy to make friends. I belonged to several condo owners committees and made some good friends, both local and expat. I also joined a gym and made friends there. And made friends with people that lived in the same condominium as myself.
Malaysia is a welcoming destination for expats probably because most people speak English, it is generally safe, lots of great places to eat both cheap and expensive, great shopping, and the government's MM2H programs that make it easy for expats to come to live here. The place is very international, lots of events and exhibitions, beautiful cities and towns to visit and nice beaches. It's an 'easy' place to live and it's a stone's throw from other places like Singapore, Thailand and all the other countries of Asia.
When I lived there the worst thing about it were the taxi drivers. But since Grab arrived it got a lot better.