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@Aisham02  but why do you want to be married with him? He doesn’t seem reliable. Just divorce in the uk and get out of all this. If you are happy together you do not need marriage and money paid around. Be careful!!

My opinion as an unrelated outsider that doesn't know anything:

Sorry for your situation, I'm sure you deserve better.

First of all don't pay him anything under any circumstance. Paying that fee you are cheating the divorce clause of the contract.

Secondly, a relationship is a thing of 2, if he doesn't want to be married you should not push him and just divorce in UK.

Please do not send him any money he is playing you for a fool, you do not have to prove anything to him, he’s playing with your emotions by blocking you, do yourself a favour and divorce him in England and move on with your life ,I wish you all the best .

@Aisham02

run away from this negative relationship. It is ending before starting.

be happy without him. You do not need this kind of penalty in your life.

@Aisham02

Are you ready serious? Why do you want to register in Morocco? How does that protect you? Does this guy even want you? Why do you want to be with him when he doesn't..?

@Aisham02 what a ***. Excuse my French I am lost for words

@U M52 he says it when he is on one of his moods. So I don't think he means it as he would divorce me if he ment it. We are married islamicaly and legally. I love him and we have been through a lot even a death of our baby's who lived very short time. Deep down I think he is being like this as a coping mechanism for what he have been through. Part of me believes he still loves us for the sake of Allah.  I am just broken but have hope for us

@Aisham02

Uk civil marriage then divorce! Why would you want this piece of burden around your neck!

Good Lord! 

@Aisham02

with everything that he is doing to you and still not getting it? I don’t believe that you are asking for what to do in here. This person is definitely taking you for a mug. This is not a relationship of equals. It’s definitely a relationship which he is using for his own benefits and his only. There a lots of descent people out there who will treat you like an equal and not use you for their financial gains. You don’t need him to stay in Morocco and getting a married in Morocco will complicate things even further. It will be hard and costly to get divorced in Morocco from someone who is clearly using you. What can’t you see that? Wake up.

@Aisham02 just end it all....this is looks like a big trap for you

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I’m sorry you are going through this but I think you know right from wrong. You know how you are supposed to feel and this isn’t it.

I’m currently in Morocco visiting my boyfriends family. They’ve never asked me for anything. They over feed me because they think I don’t eat and his mom took me to a salon.

We are currently in Marrakech and my love language is giving gifts but I would never give someone money. I’m from the U.S and I’m well off but my mom would slap me silly if I give someone money, especially money I worked hard for and I bust my ass at work.

You have to decide what you are willing to allow and losing a baby and the emotions that come with that can beat you down emotionally where you don’t think straight.

Ask yourself this, would you want someone treating your mother or your child like this? You have to want better for yourself and love yourself honey. Nobody is worth tearing down our divinity and self worth. I don’t know you but i love you and want the best for you. Please want the best for yourself.

@Aisham02 so is the question are you mad, omg walk away from this loser its obvious your moneys the only important thing.

No one in there right mind would still be wanting to be married to him, surely yoi must have some sense, get divorced right nie, yjere are people out there for you

@Aisham02 that is a job for moroccan man here they are a con artist a scammer they are bad person they just good if you are useful for them i swear that's what i noticed for living here though i don't have experienced to have a moroccan boyfriend becaused i always ignored them but there is a lot of crazy filipina here have experienced like that.so please just go back to your country.

it also so hard to live here you cant send money,they are ignorant here in all aspect.

@Aisham02 you can hope that he loves you. But the money part is NOT justifiable.!!!

He talk about divorce, money, divorce, money....!!! This does not seem a health relationship. But anyway, if you still love him, give the Relationship a time. Don't rush to it. Wait and see... whatever he says, just reply Incha'Allah, we will do it when the right time comes... Play time game and see how the situation progresses. After this, if he is genuinely loves you, he will stay and be responsible otherwise he will be out of your life.

Still try your best to enjoy with him in a healthy relationship with him but NO money, NO registration.

@Aisham02

I have to comment a 2nd time.  Are you or this post real? 

A decent human being does not abandon a wife/partner after losing a baby.  That grief will be eternal and has to be shared.

A decent human being does not demand money for himself, his parents, his house and for any other belongings- humans and or animals.

A decent human being, after sharing such personal tragedy does not stop talking, blocking  (in the internet world) by ignoring the other until the blackmailing is over.

Without casting aspersions on anyone’s character, surely you’re not naive, weak person to know that you’ve been ‘had’ and are being held to ransom!  This fatal attraction which you think is ‘love’ is a mere cover-up for the abuse, tragedy, helplessness that you feel right now.

Take a deep breath, start the divorce proceedings and thank God that life has been given to you to make better decisions and a future great life.

All the best best to you.

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please . Ditch him .   He’ made it clear ,  he turns his back on you . Move on , and be happy . It’s not easy if you feel love for him .  But obviously it’s not mutual . I had similar , but not married ,   I could tell you a thousand things . Fleeced big time !!! Really  leave him ,   He will already be looking for another  bank ! 

think of you !   Be happy . You will look back and see him for what he is .    He’s blocked you . Says it all . You know this .