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hi, welcome to expat, i have a roommate looks like one but we never told him that. We had a small argument but past is past. Honestly bro i admire him because he almost know everything and i do learn some from him. He spend most of his time on his bed playing on the internet, loves food and sometimes lazy but best of it his friendly and knows his sorry. Remember bro your still human and you have rights from you everything you want, lonliness is for everyone but try to be lonely for awhile.

.....can,t tell!!!!!!!!!!I

The secret is in the word "Socialize"; you have got to go out and make some friends, do not isolate yourself and stay away of people. Go out, talk to people and be friendly and I'm sure you would be able to make many friends in no time; you just have to Socialize

Best of  Luck

aquariusg,

i smiled at your post as loneliness isn't a disease; itÂ’s a "state" of mind.

whereas autism is a genetic condition albeit it does appear in many grades or levels so some more severe than others.

we're all different in personality, character etc; some are introverts, some extroverts and some mixed depending on circumstance.

there may be issues in your life impacting your energy level e.g. if you have a stressful job, you may not crave interaction but prefer solitude to recharge.

be kind to yourself and try to explore what you respond to. socializing is good, as is working out. staying mentally and physically fit helps us to be resilient.

you don't need to fit a mold either. you're unique and created exactly as planned.

cheers,

I ignore it and I start socializing with humorous people.

You are right and I 100 per cent agree lonliness infact is a state of mind.Very well said.

aahh..did someone mention autism here?

hahaha,,you are not!
it's only your state..
it was normal,sometime..
all i can suggest is..GO OUT and MEET THE CROWD..hehehe

don't worry...all will be okay

Socialize....feel the same way when i got here for the first 6 months completely lost,but then getting more and more friends to hang out with,adopt a Cat, plus,attending courses n Fun is more,B

My roommate just arrived from vacation he was crying, lonely and felt bad saying he made a wrong decision of going back in Jeddah. I just accompanied him for awhile because I need to work. I just reminded him his purpose of coming back, 1st he need to work not for him but for his wife and kids future. Think things why you should stay in Philippines then balance it why you should leave them and work abroad. If one of it got the heaviest reason then procceed to your decision. I knew his listening to me and i knew he decided to stay. Anyway theres nothing he can do anymore because his already here and he needs to finnish another contract.

Well,its life Kuya

who would like to leave their own country anyway ???? for example myself..i leave Indonesia for better living in other country,,,its quite sad your story is actually,but what can i say ? once again,its life...

Your right Ate

But we have choice. Him he chose to work and leave his family but in the other hand he blame himself for the decision.

Naaaaaaahhhh,,he should not blame himself for this,otherwise he is the only one will suffer
just keep cheer him up,coz at this situation your advice is worth,he will thank you later...

hahaha thats what I always do, making people happy hihihi thanks

only having a boyfriend, can prevent me from loneliness, anybody help find me a boyfriend? LOL!!

Interesting how folks in here go off topic so easily,  by the way use this time when you're lone to meditate about your life.

princess sandra wrote:

only having a boyfriend, can prevent me from loneliness, anybody help find me a boyfriend? LOL!!

I hate to say it, but if you need a man to not be lonely then you'll always be lonely.

that awkward moment when you don't speak to anyone in your class then the teacher says go find a partner.

I've been here for 2 months and I feel it... but planning to go out next weekend:)

I've been lonely almost all my life , I'm lonely when i'm with friends , i'm lonely when i'm with family , I'm lonely when i'm giggling at parties , it doesn't actually go away . u need to connect or reconnect , to find humans who can understand you , who u can relate to .
how i deal with it , pain killers " animation ,sight seeing , reading " things that takes your mind of the fact that you're screwed " i thought that this world is only inhabitant by foul beasts but lately i've found out that there are descent ppl around , not much & certainly not in control .
i think it was pertrand russle who said that the problem of this world is that smart ppl are not sure of their selves while idiots are , something like that , i can't remember the exact quote

loneliness can be cured with a friend:)

be my friend and there will two less lonely people in the world...

Is that a song?

HaileyinHongKong wrote:

Is that a song?

you probably know..it was from a song

But I can't think of what song.

HaileyinHongKong wrote:

But I can't think of what song.

Two Less Lonely People Lyrics
Air Supply

"The whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves, and wiser people so full of doubts." – Bertand Russell

HaileyinHongKong wrote:

"The whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves, and wiser people so full of doubts." – Bertand Russell

are we in the right discussion?

HaileyinHongKong wrote:

"The whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves, and wiser people so full of doubts." – Bertand Russell

True. Unfortunately, when the fools and fanatics are in power, the wiser did nothing till too many have lost their lives.

Haven't we talked about it?

hELLnoi wrote:

HaileyinHongKong wrote:

"The whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves, and wiser people so full of doubts." – Bertand Russell

are we in the right discussion?

I was responding to this

Guardian wrote:

i think it was pertrand russle who said that the problem of this world is that smart ppl are not sure of their selves while idiots are , something like that , i can't remember the exact quote

hELLnoi wrote:

Two Less Lonely People Lyrics
Air Supply

Thank you.  It was driving me crazy.

Music

Massive loneliness can lead to depression.

Hericles wrote:

Massive loneliness can lead to depression.

wOw.. all that can be CURED by having a friend.. even a doGGie or a kiTTie friend

loneliness come along when you only focus to you only
try to look around and interesting to learn about living
maybe it will help to cure the loneliness

Nobody can escape from loneliness !

Hericles wrote:

Nobody can escape from loneliness !

you are your best friend. if you feel lonely, talk to your shadow

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I go out with friends and cook dinner parties at my apt. U

You should invite hELLnoi.  He likes a good dinner party.